Nobody talks to you until you both say yes.
Swipe through people. If you like someone and they like you back, a conversation opens. If you would rather not, decline and they never know.
Join freeOver 21s only. Free while we test. Open worldwide.
Swipe
One profile at a time. Like or pass. Nobody is told that you passed.
Like you back, or decline
People who liked you appear in one list. You answer on your own time — or not at all.
Then talk
Chat only opens on a mutual like. No unsolicited messages, because there is no way to send one.
Who it is for
Lonelihearts is a free dating site for single people over 21, anywhere in the world. If you are tired of being one of the lonely hearts and are looking for love — a soulmate, a life partner, somebody to build towards marriage with, or simply companionship and good conversation — this is a place to start.
It is not restricted by region. Lonely singles in London, Lagos, Johannesburg, Manila or Toronto all meet in the same place. You say what you are looking for, and nobody can message you until you have said yes to them too.
How we handle trouble
Report and block are on every profile and every conversation. Blocking is instant and needs nobody's approval. When you report someone we stop contact between you first and review it afterwards — you should never have to wait for a decision to be left alone.
Read what we do when something goes wrong →